Category Archives: Quotes for parents

Mentoring Boys – The Challenge of Improving Communication Skills

For the next several months a group of writers focused on the issues of boys and men are collaborating through the writing and sharing of blog posts in order to bring greater awareness to the unique challenges boys and men … Continue reading

Wisdom…

Forty years ago, I was in graduate school at Duke University, in over my head, learning as hard and fast as I could to catch up to my classmates. It paid off – I earned my Ph.D. four years later. … Continue reading

Good Advice for Parents – Pound the Rock

Parenting a teenager may be the hardest thing you ever do. It can sometimes seem like a thankless, hopeless endeavor. You have your dream – to help your child grow up to be a strong, independent, happy, successful adult. But … Continue reading

Gloria Estefan Gives Credit to Her First-Grade Teacher

I recently read an article by Marissa Villa in the San Antonio Express-News, “Singer Estefan hasn’t forgotten the lessons of a teacher.” Popular singer Gloria Estefan was only six years old and couldn’t speak English, but her teacher, Dorothy Collins was … Continue reading

It Takes a Village

This is Myles Turner, a 17-year-old boy from Euless, Texas. He has worked hard to prepare himself to be a highly recruited college basketball player. Next year he’ll join some lucky top program like Duke, Kansas or Kentucky and earn … Continue reading

The Silver Spoon Syndrome – Give the Gift of Work

Jennifer was a clerk at an auto parts store in Vista Hills. She got the job because Jackson, her husband, was a mechanic at the Chevrolet dealership and was friends with the owner. But she, like her husband, was a … Continue reading

Oprah Winfrey’s Wisdom – A Source of Inspiration for Parents

Few people alive today have been quoted as often as Oprah Winfrey. Her life journey has taken her far, far from her humble beginnings. Despite her amazing success and vast experience, she remains a plainspoken woman. Maybe this is why … Continue reading

Build Your Child’s Self-Esteem – The Right Way

Self-esteem is how people see themselves – their worth, who they are. Low self-esteem can build from making mistakes, from not forgiving oneself, and from too much criticism from authority figures such as parents, elders, teachers, or employers. Young people … Continue reading

You’ll Be a Man, My Son

Once upon a time when my youngest boy was about 18 years old, we were walking together and he asked me, “Dad, what does masculinity mean to you?” A loaded question. I sensed that he was aware that he was … Continue reading

Inspiration for Parents to Do the Hard Things

QUESTION: What can you do as a parent that is super-easy and super-safe and super-quick that will reward you with great fulfillment? ANSWER: Well, how about the next time you take a break, look around you and mindfully appreciate your … Continue reading

The Kids in Your Life Need You to Be Strong

Are you a parent or grandparent? Then you have first-hand experience with the uncountable problems, issues, mistakes and failures that are always a part of helping a young person grow up to be a happy, successful adult. It’s truly wonderful … Continue reading

Parenting Teens – 9 Great Quotes

In another post, I wrote about a terrific parenting book called CDO Chief Daddy Officer: The Business of Fatherhood, by Chris Efessiou. A highly successful business leader and father, he made a strong case that the fundamentals of effective leadership … Continue reading

Composure – 10 Inspiring Quotes for Parents

My dad was a really nice guy. But I remember that when I was a teenager, he lost his temper with me three times. Yes, exactly three times. And the sad thing is that half a century later I still … Continue reading

Insights for Parents – The Real Nature of Forgiveness

Many parents think that when you forgive a young person, you’re doing something for the child. Yes, your child may regret doing something that hurt your feelings and may have asked for forgiveness. And indeed, telling the child that you … Continue reading

A Humorous Story – The Challenge of Parenting a Teen

I’ve logged quite a few hours writing about teens for their parents. Rather than address every conceivable topic, I’ve focused mostly on the issue of teen brain development. What can a parent do to stimulate maximum growth of the pre-frontal … Continue reading

I Recall My Own Teenage Years – Some Surprises

A few years ago, I had a reunion with some old high school buddies that I hadn’t seen in nearly 50 years. It was an amazing experience and a lot of fun. But I remember one comment my old friend … Continue reading

Patience Can Help Parents Do the Hard Things

Raising a child is hard. We would like to believe that what you need to do is to appreciate the miracle of the child and reach out with love at every moment. But of course there’s so much more to … Continue reading

Dr. David Walsh’s “Why Do They Act That Way?” – 4 Basics for Parenting Teens

Do you have a teenager in your life? I ask this question a lot these days, because a lot of people are in this situation. And a young person’s developmental experience during the 12-15 year period called adolescence has become … Continue reading